I’ve been on the happy train lately – short version? I’ve let go of the past, and made room for the future. I’m exponentially happier than I’ve ever been in my life, and a large factor in this has been the Universe. Basic science tells us that for every action there is a reaction. If you combine baking soda with vinegar, they will react with an eruption. Likewise, with the universe, if you combine positive thinking with daily intentions, the universe will react with its own form of an eruption. Send crazy good vibes into the world, and you will get them back. You attract the energy that you give off – I swear by this method.
Give up on the job that is no longer fueling your creativity. Give up on the boyfriend or girlfriend that is no longer aware of your true value. Give up on the friendships that no longer serve you with precious inspiration. Give up on junk food that is making you lethargic. And give up on the negativity, because it’s not doing you any good.We’ve been told our entire lives that we should never give up – When things get tough, we need to get tougher. Well, somethings really aren’t meant to be tough. Like I discussed in a previous article, Love Isn’t Meant to Hurt, if a relationship is no longer serving you – You need to leave. If your significant other makes you feel alone and underappreciated, walk away. Love is supposed to feel good, I swear to you, my darling.
Demand The Best
Stop putting up with the things you don’t deserve. You are a freaking goddess, and you need to start embracing that. You are the first link in the chain to any relationship that you allow others to have with you. The way you treat yourself is the building blocks to how they will treat you. When you walk into a room, make sure everybody in that damn room knows that you are to be respected and cherished. How do you do that? Your energy, my dear. You need to send out higher vibrations. This isn’t just “hippie dippie mumbo-jumbo”. This is real. Energy doesn’t lie.Once you learn to respect yourself, and cherish your mind, body and soul – the rest of the world will follow.
Know Your Worth
Once you know your value, add tax. Don’t allow anybody to diminish your feelings or your hopes and dreams. Learn how much you are worth, and set boundaries for yourself in life, and in relationships. Once you have figured this out, you will no longer have to worry about “taking out the trash”, so to speak – It will take itself out.Negative people intend to bring you down to their level. Step over them, and make your way to the top. Just as they aren’t allowed to diminish you, please don’t diminish them. All we can do is hope that someday they will see the light and meet you up there. But until then, be the bigger person.
Raise your vibrations, and let go of the things you cannot change. You cannot change the way they have treated you, but you can change the way you react to it and them. Let it go. I’m telling you, it is the greatest feeling in the world to be free of all grudges.You’re worth so much more. The universe is waiting for you to realise it too. Once you do, doors will start to fly open, and your life will be so much more full. Just wait and see.